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I have provided care for someone. These are the thoughts and feelings I keep to myself.

ACTIVE TO 15 Jun 2026

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He mahi pai, he mahi uaua hoki te manaaki i tētahi o tō whānau. Ka tono mātou kia kōrero mai koe mō ō whakaaro me ō kare ā-roto i a koe e manaaki ana i tētahi o tō whānau e māuiui ana, e noho hauā ana, e ngoikore ana rānei.

Caring for someone can be rewarding and also difficult. We invite you to share the thoughts and feelings you've had when caring for someone with an illness, disability, or frailty.

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As well as caring for them, I need to work and take care of everything else for the household - without making them feel useless. And in order to be…

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